SHE ASKS … SHE GETS …
The only thing that really worried me was the CATNIP. There is nothing in the world more helpless and irresponsible and depraved than a CAT in the depths of a CATNIP binge. And I knew we’d get into that rotten stuff pretty soon MEOW.
Can’t breathe. :’)
Neither ‘true dominance’ nor ‘true submission’ - Devotional Sex is for the rest of us.
Whenever female erotic power is discussed on BDSM sites (such as FetLife) the ideal of ‘true dominance’ and ‘true submission’ is put up as the way things should be done.
The ‘true submissive’ is submissive even when he has no erotic energy, and his submission ‘should’ apply to all aspects of his life with his Mistress (housework, finances, what to watch on TV, etc etc).
The ‘true dominant’ is naturally dominant (or bossy) and expects her submissive to want to obey her in all aspect of their lives.
Of course there are people who are (or want to be) as described above, and if they find a matching partner they are likely to live a very happy BDSM or FLR lifestyle.
Devotional Sex is very different because it is for the rest of us.
Devotional Sex only applies to the sensual and sexual parts of a couple’s life.
A Knight’s willingness to obey his Princess is powered by his erotic energy which is kept high because he does not ejaculate at the end of most sessions. A Knight enjoys giving his partner sexual and sensual pleasures - but he is also wanting to be her Knight because he has found that this lifestyle gives him a much more intense, pleasurable, and fun lifestyle.
The Princess is not a dominant woman. She uses her power over her Knight to enjoy lots of sensual and sexual pleasures, but she also uses her power to give her Knight enough joy so that he always wants to remain her Knight.
This photo captures the devotional dynamic - the Knight powered by his arousal, and his Princess enjoying his arousal, and using this to enhance both of their lives.
